Sunday, 29 January 2017

Artist Date No 1

Back & full of brambles
I cut up through the back of the garden, up onto the hill. I was looking for moss but there aren't many flowers left now, but a lot of lichen. It's a damp day and everything is beaten down. I have red welts on my legs from the blackberries.
I had to come home after half an hour feeling sick and nervous, but cut through too soon and got tangled up. When I got home Ivy and Will were smiling and just as I left them, except the house had warmed up and Ivy had no pants on. I can't wait for next week.
Keeping warm
Out of the garden
Up and out
The house peeping through













Back home

Thursday, 26 January 2017

Back again

Well I said I wouldn't be back before the move but here I am. Moving so far - touch wood - hasn't been as stressful as I'd anticipated, mostly because I asked my Mum to come down and help us at the weekend when we managed to move the majority of our furniture, and all of our books, CDs, records etc into the new house. The ground floor of the house is near enough complete now and ready to move into, with mostly just essentials left behind here at our rental. It's a bit awkward with the car seat as we can't transport much up to the house in the car,  but it will work out. We will be moving in for good in 2 or 3 weeks.
In the meantime we have just been getting things a bit straighter here. I've been getting a bit anxious about the amount of open packets of food we have in the cupboard - so much so that I have been put off cooking and instead mostly living off bread which does me no good - so Will has gotten everything out and we are going to try and work our way through it. It doesn't look so intimidating out on the counter but I have to be honest I wish I could just throw it all away and start again.
After being recommended it by a friend I bought the book The Artist's Way, and have been really getting into it. I've started writing my morning pages while I'm in the tub in the morning, and am feeling more validated in my creativity. I think that's all it is, but if you need it you need it. It seems mad now that for my whole life my plan was to be an artist, I studied for it and I worked for it, and now it's not a part of my life at all. I am satisfied being a wife and a mother, but when I always considered being creative so important I think it's been quite damaging to my confidence and happiness trying to leave it behind. I am very much looking forward to being in our now home and being secure and permanent and surrounded by those hills.
This week it was the three year anniversary of Will proposing to me. About a year ago I lost the piece of amber from my engagement ring, much to my distress, and it has lived in my purse since then. Will surprised me this week by having a new stone made for it and the setting improved by a silversmith. I suspect not thrifty, but very romantic, and my ring sits proudly on my finger once more.
That's all for now. I have resolved this week to be more focused and better at my job, which is bringing me quite a lot of unnecessary stress at the moment. Toodleoo.

Wednesday, 18 January 2017

Moving moving...

We found out yesterday that after over 3 months we are FINALLY ready to complete on our new house, so hopefully will be doing so in the next few days. After that we will move in over the next few weeks (we need to have a phone line put in which will take about 2 weeks apparently, so need to wait until that's sorted as we both work from home)
Doubtful I will be doing any blogging until then, so see you on the other side!!

Monday, 9 January 2017

Monthly budget

I have seen a lot of blogs keeping track of their monthly spending on food, clothes etc. and although I'm coming in a little late I think it would be good for me to keep track of what I'm spending, especially with the pending house move.
Most of my expenses are from online purchases and it has been quite an expensive week this week.

Baby
1kg benzonite clay - £6.99. I have bought this for Ivy's nappy rash, but it has many uses and was cheaper to buy in larger quantities so I bought a kilo.
4x lavera nappy rash cream at 5.99 ea - £23.96. This is expensive and I would like to stop using it, but I wanted to get some more so we have it as backup while trying out alternatives.
3 secondhand footless playsuits from eBay. Total £11.99. Ivy is 5 months and quite tall so is outgrowing her 3-6m clothes. Footless playsuits are best as they are easy access for using the potty and are good for carrying her in the wrap.

Craft
Various blank cards total £29.55. This is a big expensive, but I have been writing a lot of cards and letters lately and wanted to have a good stock of cards so I don't keep running out.

Sunday, 8 January 2017

Latest crafting & hippy parenting

One of my New Years resolutions was to do something creative every day, and that's something I'm determined to stick to. I have always been a creative person and for most of my life have found it easy to be making things all the time, one way or other, but since 2014 and leaving Plymouth life has gotten in the way a bit, and it didn't come naturally to me anymore. I've really tried lately to use my time in the evening once Ivy has gone to be to make something to unwind, and have really enjoyed doing more crafty things after years of fine art, and theory, and having to explain myself.
The legwarmer with the leaf pattern that I was working on may have to be called off and unraveled as the website I took the pattern from seems to have disappeared. No matter, the pattern was difficult anyway, it was a 16 row repeat, and would be better suited to something larger possibly. I will get started on those dinosaur toys.
I have started working on a cross stitch/embroidery. I used to love embroidering and haven't done it in a long time. I have never done cross-stitch before, it is time consuming and calming.

I have done a little more batik. I will be doing some more as I love it, but I will try to be a bit more patient next time and build up a few to dye all at once. It seems a waste of dye and is time consuming doing all that rinsing when you only have a couple of bits.
We got a T.V license for the Christmas period and I watched the Blue Planet. I love jellyfish. We saw a large Compass Jellyfish when we were swimming  in the sea once.

This morning Will was wearing Ivy in the wrap so she could get some sleep and I treated myself ot a little stamp carving. I am looking forward to living near woodland, I never have before and it is what I always imagined for my grown-up home.

For the last month or so we have been practicing baby-led potty training - basically looking out for signals from Ivy that she's gotta go, and whipping off the nappy, We learn what to look for, and she learns to hold it until her nappy comes off. It's going very well, we're using a lot fewer nappies than we were and will be able to do awash every 2 days if we keep improving which will save water. We bought a Beco Potty, a biodegradable potty made from bamboo & resin. When you are finished with it, you bury it in the garden and it biodegrades in 3-5 years.
I am borrowing a ring sling from a friend at the moment. She is selling it and was happy with me trying it out for a few days to see if it suits us. We're struggling a little at the moment to be honest as Ivy keeps straightening her legs and losing the seat. I think I just need to make it deeper from the start. I'm going to keep trying as it's so quick and easy to put on. I love baby wearing and am amazed that parents manage without to be honest.

This week our new blender jug arrived. It's glass, and I knocked our old one off the counter before Christmas and smashed it. It was as expensive to replace as it was to buy a new blender nearly, but it saves the motor which still works fine from landfill. I was please that the jug arrived without the plastic lid, blades etc. as our original ones are obviously all still fine.
There were about 5 pumpkins knocking around in the kitchen from Autumn that I've been putting off using which I finally got around to preparing. They made pumpkin & split pea suit, pumpkin & rosemary spaghetti, and pumpkin, lentil & othe fridge veg curry, most of which I've frozen. We are not planning to have a large freezer, or perhaps one at all when we move as they take up a lot of space and power. Will was looking up off-grid DIY cool storage.
We haven't been food shopping since Christmas, we've have enough vegetables and a lot of dried food stored which I'd like to use up.
Everything else rolls on as before. We are still waiting on news from the house. Something to do with it being a private lane has raised eyebrows from the mortgage provider, but I'm sure it will all weork out and we are both very excited and ready to move into our new home.